I could relate myself to the author of this post.
A few points that I found interesting. [verbatim from the post]:
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Beware the traps of justification and attribution when thinking about your life. Many people justify past decisions because they want them to make sense and feel better.
^-- This is what I have been doing the past one year! Fooling myself.
Yes, most clouds have silver linings. But sometimes getting hit in the head with a shovel is just getting hit in the head with a shovel. It’s not fun, there’s not much educational value, and your life really is better without it.
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I really don't know what I want.
The author gives simple and effective tips to understand what you want:
1. A feel good list <-- In this, you note down the events that made you feel good. eg: understanding the paper on semantic search. eg: Explaining Sudhir on why I feel that semantic search would be better than textual search. eg: Telling a colleague that google patent search would be better than delphion.
eg: Helping a colleague finding a solution to the problem he was facing.
2. An ideas list <-- In this you note down the ideas that come to your mind. The author mentioned sometimes he gets a great idea in the sleep and he just gets up and notes that idea down. This happened to me a couple of times :). 3. Finally, get external inputs. Understand your personality and get inspired. I took up this personality test on: and found that : I was and ENJF http://typelogic.com/enfj.html
Extraverted | Intuitive | Feeling | Judging |
Strength of the preferences % | |||
33 | 38 | 12 | 11 |
I'd like to read it again.
In short, it says that people like me like to find solutions, look for greener pastures, help others and are pedagogues of humanity.
That is true I believe, but it is for the people around me to tell me that.
Here is something from a test that I took up previously.
More good talk. From the same blog:
This talk is good:
Richard St. John: Secrets of success in 8 words, 3 minutes
- Do what you love: Passion
- Determination: Hard work, focus, push yourself, get good in one thing
- Make something useful: Ideas, serve others
- Keep your chin up: Persist
I need to look at the highlighted points
One needs to persist in the face of failure and other CRAP:
- Criticism
- Rejection
- Jerks (or another word for a non-nice person)
- Pressure